Bentheim Gw tau Jerman tuh emang meticulous banget, tapi gw nggak sangka bakal se- meticulous itu. Kira-kira bulan Maret gw apply Schengen via Jerman. Kenapa via Jerman? Karena Belanda nggak ada slot heheheee. Rencana perginya bulan April kalau nggak salah waktu itu. Karena suami ada libur tapi cuma pendek banget, dan dia pengen banget pulang ke sana, yaudah lah coba aja. Dapet antrian, mana bayarnya 700ribu pula 😅 lalu pergilah gw submit semua dokumen gw. Gw bukan yang pertama kali mengajukan Schengen, jadi gw udah "tau" harus submit apa aja. Karena sebagai orang yang menikah dengan warga EU, kami berhak untuk tidak menunjukkan buku tabungan (yg penting tabungan pasangan yang EU yg ditampilkan), dll. Dengan ina inu, eh ternyata diminta surat kerja lah, kalau freelancer harus kasih tau bukti kerjaan juga. Gw rasa ribet ya karena nggak formal kerjanya, jadi ya udah gw tulis ibu rumah tangga. Itu juga masih harus bikin surat pernyataan siapa yg membiayai biaya hidup gw kala
Sanur
When something small came to me, either a problem or a blessing, I always have a wilder version of that. That is what keeps my mind busy, many times tired.
These wild imaginations sometimes create assumptions and what-ifs. The older I get the more I learn not randomly tell other people about that. My assumptions can influence other people's points of view about something or someone. If my assumptions were right then it's fine. But when it is not right, it can hurt someone. I know how painful it can be. Probably destroy something that shouldn't be destroyed. You never know how words can hurt someone that much.
I learn to keep it myself. This is why we need to speak up about the facts, not assumptions.
I survived another year today, yay.
Cheers, 29!
Aduh hepi berdey mbaknya... May Gad giv yu en gren yu His numerous rewords, amennn
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Ai ken andersten yor jenglish bro. tengkyu yess
DeleteWaaa peluk jauh mbak. Pibesdaiiii yaaa. Sehat bahagia selalu. Overthinking wajar asal jangan sering2.. Hihi
ReplyDeleteahahah iya mbak thank youu,
Deletecapek jg ya overthinking haha
umur kita beda tipis hehehe
ReplyDeleteApalah arti sebuah angka wkwkw
DeleteMungkin udah telah, tapi tak apakan saya tetap mengucapkan hepi besdey mba.. wish u all the best
ReplyDeletewaaaahhh terima kasihh doanyaaa :D masih agustus kok hehehe
Deletesiap2 kepala 3 ya taun depan...
ReplyDeleteI AM READY HAHAHHA
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