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If Money Wasn't The Problem, What Would You Do?

In this extraordinary life, I would be a teacher still.  Helping people to understand even some little things to make them feel worthy and understand themselves better. It seems that teaching has become a calling for me. Not about teaching such specific subject like mathematics or so, but more like... I like to give new perspectives for people, and having them saying "Oh.... I see..." is satisfying for me. Of course, by teaching I can learn so many new perspectives from different people too. It's like the more I teach the more I learn, and that is so true. Maybe more like a guide. I like giving guidance to people who needs it. No, I don't like giving unsolicited guiding. I like to guide people who wants to be guided. I'd teach them how to love, love themselves first. Yea sure when we are talking about things, they would say "do useful things like engineering, plumbing, this and that" but they tend to forget that we need some balance in life. Not saying t
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An Overthinker

Sanur

For the last 29 years, I live as an overthinker. I always talk to myself, having my wild imaginations about everything, having so many conversations in my mind, making myself a stronger person, or even a vulnerable person in my imaginations. If I can write it down myself, all of them can be some crazy movies. Unfortunately, it's just too wild to tell.

When something small came to me, either a problem or a blessing, I always have a wilder version of that. That is what keeps my mind busy, many times tired. 

These wild imaginations sometimes create assumptions and what-ifs. The older I get the more I learn not randomly tell other people about that. My assumptions can influence other people's points of view about something or someone. If my assumptions were right then it's fine. But when it is not right, it can hurt someone. I know how painful it can be. Probably destroy something that shouldn't be destroyed. You never know how words can hurt someone that much. 

I learn to keep it myself. This is why we need to speak up about the facts, not assumptions. 

I survived another year today, yay.

Cheers, 29!

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  1. Riza AlhusnaAugust 3, 2020 at 10:47 AM

    Aduh hepi berdey mbaknya... May Gad giv yu en gren yu His numerous rewords, amennn

    *javanese english*

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  2. Ella FitriaAugust 3, 2020 at 3:33 PM

    Waaa peluk jauh mbak. Pibesdaiiii yaaa. Sehat bahagia selalu. Overthinking wajar asal jangan sering2.. Hihi

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    1. Prisca AdityaAugust 3, 2020 at 7:46 PM

      ahahah iya mbak thank youu,

      capek jg ya overthinking haha

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  3. Arif ChasanAugust 4, 2020 at 11:53 AM

    umur kita beda tipis hehehe

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  4. Bang DayAugust 4, 2020 at 2:38 PM

    Mungkin udah telah, tapi tak apakan saya tetap mengucapkan hepi besdey mba.. wish u all the best

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    1. Prisca AdityaAugust 4, 2020 at 7:35 PM

      waaaahhh terima kasihh doanyaaa :D masih agustus kok hehehe

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  5. Rezky PratamaAugust 4, 2020 at 9:29 PM

    siap2 kepala 3 ya taun depan...

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