Mom told me that she wants to have foreigner son in law. I just laugh when heard that. She ask me if I have any relationship with someone after break up, maybe. And I said no, I don’t have any. She ask again, if there is no one likes me then. I just said that there are some, but don’t want to have it now. Then mom said that better I have foreigner husband, here is our conversation :
Mom : hey, don’t you want to marry foreigner? Maybe American, Australian, or whatever
me : hahaha.. mama wanna have foreigner son in law?
Mom : yes sure, you have many foreigner friends, why don’t you just marry one of them? Just choose the best one then.
Me : what? Marry them?
Mom : why not? You told me that Australian lawyer wanna marry you, and who else, hmmm England pathologist too
me : oh please, don’t talk about that pathologist now. Sometimes feels that he doesn’t have good manners.
Mom : ok, who else now?
Me : mom, please.
mom : mom will approve you to marry foreigner as long as he is good person for you and family, he has good life too, and the most important thing is he can leads you in our way, Islam.
me : of course mom. Ok I will looking for someone good to marry hahaha
mom : ok, look for the best one haha
We just laughing when talk about this hhahaa. Like mom like daughter, haahaa
My house now is not a big house rather than the last house where I lived. The last house before I move here is so big big big house ever, was built on Dutch’s colonize. Yes, very big and located in front of main road. So crowded, so noisy, and always be target of accidents, don’t know why. But now, I live small house, maybe since 12years ago. Smaller than before, in quite place, not really far from main road, but not in front of it. So little bit quite here.
Even not a big house and there are 6 people in house, it feel so warm here. Of course smaller house with much people will make it warmer, but not because of that. it is because love hehe… we are loving each other, that makes my house feel so warm. Yeah I know, I live in Pandaan which is very very hot (and not good for vampire hehe), but when stay inside house I feel so cool and stay warm always. Is that sounds strange? Stay cool and warm in same time? Not strange for me. Feel so comfortable here.
Mom always take care of family, cook always and feed us with good and healthy foods, always listen to her kids stories, always gave us good advice, always told me something important since I am the oldest one, always listen and obey to everything that Dad says, always keep her mom save and healthy, always do the best for family. That is my mom.
Dad always watch his every kids very well, always be the first one who got worried if something happen to kids and family, even not talking as much as mom he always lead us to be in good way in life, always give us lots of money if we say “Dad, I have to buy this book, that book, many books”, dad always want his kids do the best in education and get much knowledge, such a good leader for his wife, kids, and family. That is my dad.
And my granny, even she is so loud and talking much, I know that she talking about our goodness. Not all can accept her habit, lot of people doesn’t like she talks much, it just because they doesn’t know my granny so much like me even they are her grandchild too. Getting older, and still fresh, and still active, and still loud, and still talks much, that is my granny.
Sisters, are doing good. The youngest are looks like me. the oldest are dreamer, same like me. so they both, are looks like me when I was young or now. They just follow their oldest well. They are my sisters.
And me, it’s me. and only me. The oldest daughter, the oldest grandchild. I just have to be me. and I am happy to be me, my self.
And that’s my house, people in my warm house. Really love them all.
Menjaga Warga Negara Indonesia, terutama WNI yang baik, merupakan suatu kewajiban setiap warga Negara. Sudah merupakan kewajaran jika kita sebagai WNI menjaga Negara kita ini. Ini dari pandangan saya sebagai seorang WNI yang mencintai Indonesia, jujur saja Negara kita masih disebut Negara berkembang. Masih berbenah disetiap sudutnya, terutama soal korupsi. Ahh itu selalu saja membosankan dan menyebalkan jika bersentuhan dan berurusan dengan korupsi. Walaupun masih saja banyak yang membuang sampah sembarangan, masih saja tidak bisa antri dengan baik, masih saja terkadang “alay”, masih saja follower, tetapi saya sangat mencintai Negara ini. Ya seperti yang pernah saya tulis selumnya, bagaimanapun bentuk Negara saya ini, bagaimanapun kondisinya, apapun keaadaannya, sampai matipun saya tetap Indonesia. Karena Indonesia Tanah Air Beta.
Ini adalah wajar. Tapi bagaimana dengan WNA yang ingin tinggal disini??
Banyak sekali WNA yang ingin tinggal disini dan menjadi WNI. Satu hal yang selalu saya pertanyakan, “kenapa?”. Iya, mengapa? Apa alas an mereka untuk menjadi WNI? Kalau untuk kita sebagai WNI sudah merupakan kewajaran jika mencintai Negara kita apapun yang terjadi. Namun, mereka?? Apa Indonesia sebegitu menariknya bagi mereka? Iya memang, soal kecantikan dan kekayaan alamnya jangan ragukan Indonesia, mungkin masih belum bisa mengolah sendiri dengan lebih baik dan tepat saja untuk saat ini. Selain itu apa? Bukannya menjelek-jelekkan Negara sendiri, hanya saja berpikir apa yang sekiranya menarik dari Indonesia. Apakah cuaca yang tidak seekstrim di Negara dengan 4 musim? Yah, mungkin paragraph ini hanya berisi tentang pertanyaanku mengapa. Disini saya tak ingin membahas soal mengapa meninggalkan Negara mereka, hanya akan membahas Indonesia. Apakah sebegitu semenariknya Indonesia bagi mereka?
Mengapa saya mempertanyakan hal itu? Karena sudah ada 2 orang Korea yang sangat ingin menjadi WNI. Salah satunya adalah guru bahasa Korea saya yang pertama. Beliau masih muda, seorang wanita. Setelah menyelesaikan tugasnya di Indonesia selama 2 tahun, beliau kembali ke Korea. Menyelesaikan studinya di Korea selama 2 tahun, dan sekarang sangat ingin kembali ke Indonesia. Beliau sedang mencari cara kembali ke Indonesia. Beliau sangat sangat menginginkan kembali kesini dan tak ingin kembali ke negaranya. Entah mengapa
Haha mengingat banyaknya orang asing yang ingin tinggal disini, akan membuat Indonesia menjadi lebih padat penduduk dan membingungkan pemerintah haha
Being a teacher is something that I cant imagine before. My parents ask me to be a teacher since I was child. But I will not be a teacher. I don’t know why, I just feel that being a teacher is difficult. We have to inform right information, preparing before teaching, give the best for students, and also arrange all of material that related to students (I hate this one so much). then luckily I accepted in pure math department . It means that I won’t be a teacher. Yey… I took computation, something that I love so much. But suddenly I learn Korean. It is ok to learn new language. Because I love to learn it. This time, I learn Korean from the native speakers. I really enjoy it that much.
One day, a language institute ask me to teach Korean in this institution, Mayantara School. Of course I do. But wait, teach? In some kind of institute? Oh my God. I have no experiences teaching in institute. I only teach for private student before. Oh, ok. Maybe this one will make give me something new. But this institute is different. The owner give us a right about the teaching, about what will I do for students. it doesn’t like school, but institution which have different program with other schools.
The most important thing being a teacher is how to inform the information and make students can accept it well. I like to inform something, everything. I love to sharing. this is the most important essence of being a teacher. I feel so satisfied when my students accept the material well. It feels like got something precious. But unfortunately, not all teachers feel like that. So yeah, unfortunately sometimes. At last, although I don’t want to called myself a teacher, but educator.
That’s my point of view,
