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Rough Guide to Bali

Penjor "Hey I am coming to Bali, can you recommend me things to do?" I got that question a lot. I get it, I live in Bali so people would think that I master everything about Bali. Well... 50:50. I happened to travel around Bali since 2017. So it wasn't wrong to assume me knowing Bali. But I am also a lazy traveler so I don't always do many things in one place.  That is why we will call this a rough guide to Bali.  First thing first, define your style of traveling. Because we all know that Bali is an island. Not a city. So it is quite big, you know. You can not explore all of it in two weeks. Well you might be able to do so, but probably not immersing enough of it.  So... what is your style of traveling? Bali offers you some cultures, quiet normal life, party hotspots, quiet beaches, busy beaches, temples, and so on.  Mt Batur West part of Bali (Canggu, Seminyak, Kuta) If you enjoy partying, you might want to spend your time more in the west part of Bali like Canggu, ...

Tipikal Suami

Sebenernya kalo dibilang pengen suami yang ganteeeng banget ya gak juga sih. Mending juga yang manis ga ngebosenin hehehe. Bukan ini maksudnya *salah fokus*.

Ok.. tipikal suami yang pas buat aku nih ya, dia harus 'lelaki' banget. Means... jangan setengah-setengah. jadi kalo lelaki ya kudu jantan dong. Trus seiman. Itu harus. Percuma ganteng kalo gak seiman, kalo ga bisa bimbing istrinya. Aku hanya seorang wanita yang butuh bimbingan suami di jalan Allah. Pengetahuan agamaku lemah, aku perlu seseorang yang bisa membimbingku dijalan yang benar.

Karena aku tipikal seorang yang 'stubborn', aku sangat keras kepala dan sulit diatur. Aku tidak suka diperintah. Sebenarnya aku takut kalau-kalau aku 'ngelamak' ke suami. Makanya itu, harus ada orang yang bener-bener bisa buat aku nurut. Bisa membuat aku menuruti perintahnya tanpa dia merasa menyuruh dan tanpa aku merasa diperintah. Ikhlas.

Tanggung jawab dan mandiri. Itulah lelaki. Laki itu harus mandiri dan tanggung jawab. Jadi laki ideal buat jadi suami itu laki yang seiman, tanggung jawab, mandiri. That's the point. Soal wajah hmmm yang penting ga malu-maluin lah kalo dibawa kondangan hahahahhaah *kidding*

tambahan : bukan perokok :D

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